Saturday, November 15, 2008

Six Months or Six Days!!

It started about six months ago and it was over in just six days…
Past one week has been full of excitement, happiness and at times sadness in my life. While my sister took her wedding vows two days ago, it seems that there is nothing to look forward now.

Not even one day or weekend went by without updating the “things to do list.” Anyhow it’s all over now and I had to blog about it.

Our dance performance on the cocktail night went totally rocking and everyone loved it. With my sister forcing me and my cousin to perform on one of the happening numbers of “Namak Ishq ka” and we kept on telling her that it’s a risk cause both of us still have to get married ;-)..with my uncle forcing us to cut the song and some steps…however we did it and it was indeed good…But the song that was the most fun to perform was “Desi Girl.” It was the trump card of the performance and we kept it for the end. It actually rocked!!

But there are some points that I have to write here, I am sure everyone will agree cause such things happen in every wedding some irritating some good…

1. There would always be relatives who always think that you grow up in every three months cause whenever u meet them they always say “Kitni Badi ho gayi ho” types…I mean gimme a break. I just cut my hair a bit!
2. You would never be able to enjoy the good food that u have at your near one’s wedding. So I advice that you should just eat at the time when you go to settle the menu. Its better that ways I guess…
3. The photographers are very funny. They want three pictures for every snap they take. They know how to utilize their time. Even if the bride or the groom is walking down the stairs they will make other people pose and click photographs. I mean my matrimonial snaps are already done…Wearing good clothes, with make up on and with a pose my folks at home don’t need to worry abt it ;-)
4. Most of the time you would not know all the people who come. You just keep on doing “Namaste ji.” But they would know you and your parents and remember some ages old stories abt u and ur family.
5. There is always a feeling that you have forgotten to take something very important while going for the parlour or to the venue.
6. Some people always get Tipsy and there is a specimen always at one of the functions doing something funny and weird and people would be talking about it even later.
7. I always resemble my both sisters and my parents or my aunt etc etc. Actually confused whom do I resemble now.
8. Relatives would always irritate you if you are the one to be married next. “Beta your line is clear now, get married”. This one is the most bugging of all.
9. Yeah, the most inportant if anyone has not tried it. I danced in my sister's baarat. Was the best. Seriously, next time any of sis is getting married then make an excuse and go to the baarat assembling area. PPl wil make u dance :-D

Apart from the above the other fun part is the enjoyment and being with the ones whom you love the most are all gathered at one place. Blog is too small a place to pen down your feelings about the Six Months or Six Days. But its definitely a memorable experience.
It’s the best to see your sister smile, see her being happy. It’s a nice feeling. It’s also weird when you know that you are going to miss her so much when a single morning would not go without getting a scolding from her. I know I have a single room all to myself etc etc but like the famous advertisement line of a ketchup goes “It’s different”

Love ya Sis!!